For instance, marital expert pointed out a few days ago, the balance of happy marriage is nodded, it is the husband makes the money of one times more than the wife. According to
Say, this conclusion comes from an investigation of institute of boreal division big psychology, namely bilateral income difference is in “ 2 when comparing one ” , mix in equality communication, sexual life between husband and wife spare life respect is the most harmonious. Say honest, to ” of this “ brilliant views, as man and husband I of double identity, the interest that even if pays Gates of the · that compare Er to develop systematic software in those days, also look for the actual platform that is less than it.
Saying path, marriage is a pair of shoe, easy is taken only the foot knows. Regard only measure as money, if “ gold breaks up the happiness that marriage chooses like ” , some are actually absurd. Because, the “ that says marital income is a wife one times ” , marriage is the happiest. So, when be more than or be less than, marriage whether not lopsided, happy? And, of husband and wife's income than, if be restricted greatly high hereat, or as it happens pours height, is it possible that does imply husband want ” of furtive “ concubinage? The wife must look for “ Adonis ” to won't do?
Occupy a story additionally, concerned orgnaization is opposite urban and rural the sampling investigation of 3200 pairs of married husband and wife shows, young, the urban husband of tall record of formal schooling, love to cry more when husband and wife conflicts. Psychologist thinks, modern husband has “ man tear not the old saying ignore and forget of flick ” , main reason is the man lives too tiredly, crying is for drain pressure. Just think, be in legal on below the condition of equality of pay of male and female, already had many urban men, bear actual heavy burden extremely, cry to look to the wife in the home. This Jing Zhi leaves this feeling, marital expert emphasizes however, the husband should make one times money more than the wife, be obvious increases chaos, be more of a hindrance than a help? !
About happy problem of marriage, oneself agree with · of American anthropologist Helen very Fisher's viewpoint. She thinks, both sides of male and female is having similar background and experience, matrimony will be more harmonious. Marry and not be equal to must assume a lot of pressure. Outside the word in this word, perhaps appearing the feudal consciousness that nods ” of “ be matched for marriage. But marriage does not want those who assume too great pressure to say, it is absolutely true.
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