Su Yan, 30 years old, adman

Have time of a year, I am on my last legs in a small company. We like very much over there comfortable, because work overtime rarely, so almost everyday, we are met in all sup. On the weekend when, we still see a film go to time of park together of what. So, although marry already two years many, but we seem to still be in honeymoon period like.

She and most woman are same, like the husband and oneself whole days to stay together, as to us the career of two people, she does not have exorbitant desire to gain, what say because of her is reasonable also: Happiness is finite, and the career is everlasting. So she never feels I do not have prospect, at the same time she also is in a company to working lightly flatly, did not raise the hope of duty, what still do however is very glad.

She did not give me too great pressure, but to me, myself gave him very great pressure. After spending birthday 30 years old especially, I feel I am degenerate simply, others is 30 years old when the cause that had had oneself, although the career is not successful but the cause that also has seen oneself is chief what kind of, and I? I am done do not understand I also want do this in the future.

Through cudgel one's brains, I decide to trade a big company, undertake oneself life is accumulated, next him open company.

The sort of tired never had thought before me really, but the career for oneself, I insisted to come down, but subsequently and come, be my time coming home is later and later.

While I am incommensurate, be her is incommensurate. Every time she subdues the ground to ask me: When do you come back? Every time, I cannot bear heart answer is similar result: I am returned a little while.

Everyday, I am telling myself when work overtime: For oneself company, hold to! After coming home, she is waiting for my resembling to fooling her in that way before, make her happy, but I am already tired a day, which have the state of mind? Because the job is tired,also be, not be very good-tempered in the heart, feel she does not understand me, disposition is a bit big. Send disposition every time, she a person cries, feel to there is her in that way before my unlike, she also loves in that way before unlike. Actually, I am very afflictive also when she cries, but more afflictive is, I became tired a day, I like to answer after arriving in the home, she can understand me, select care to me.

Such requirement, very beyond the mark?

Internal cause: What the wife wants is happy, what the husband wants is a career. The target is different and natural run in the opposite direction easily.

External cause: The wife hopes to get the husband and same before love, but the husband becomes aware he had paid on the job is very much, be disinclined to give love not only so, hope to be able to pay off from wife place more. Want to obtain love from body of the other side, it is helpless reason.

Wise move:

1, serve as the husband you should understand, you work hard is for your career and your achievement feeling, is subconscious like you medium " am I still for this home? " if be for this home merely, you won't find new job, what is what you know your wife needs. So, you should return for your evening feel compunctious.
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