The night of newly-married, kin friend is surrounded sit in the room, to the bride by every means joking, say be troubled by ” of room ” , “ play bride for “ . The way that make is various, each district has with discrepant. Omnibus rise can divide for civil be troubled by and fierce is troubled by two kinds. Civil be troubled by with more polite way, often be go out to the bride riddle, right two pairs, ask its to tell about amative experience and the thing that do not see the men and women at the mouth usually, shanxi folk has say “ says to make child ” , full of humour and wit, force a bride cannot answer and make a spectacle of oneself greatly, make merry of so as to. “ is evening, meddlesome person make up in order to talk about humorous language more for tonal patterns and rhyme schemes of Chinese poetry, of force bride song, the name says ‘ is troubled by room ’ . Become aggravated nearly, congratulate sincere feeling piece with joking, curb is discourteous very. ” (the Republic of China: " alar city general records of a county " ) fierce is troubled by is to use relatively graceless means, not only the mouth gives dirty speech, still start work to the bride use a base, have mischievous quality quite.

When be troubled by bridal chamber, of of the same generation, of junior, kin friend, the classmate works in the same place in succession invade bridal chamber, happy event laugh tease, especially the friend of bridegroom, they extremely use up can, recall a variety of way, let a bride be performed in public, make fun of in order to tease, common saying says “ ” of 3 sunset size, besides dad Mom can is troubled by. During this, place of etiquette and custom allows frivolous concern between people, a lot of contraindication were removed, be like the carnival in western culture quite. Accordingly, anyhow play is troubled by, how to accept hard, the bride is absolutely cannot fall out is angry. If enraged the person that does bridal chamber, what will be regarded as to be a bride is capricious, popularity is bad, in the future about won't feel well.

Be troubled by bridal chamber is the means of a kind of congratulation of pair of newly-married husband and wife. In folk-custom, people thinks bridal chamber middling has a fox, ghosts is made esteem, the shade that chases evil spirit for hasten is angry, this world that enhances person power is angry, just be troubled by bridal chamber, so civilian common saying says “ person not be haunted is troubled by ” .

Making a room also is the test of pair of newly-married husband and wife on the function, include resource and patience, it is ” of test of col of a kind of “ originally, but what often go in folk is beyond the mark, become undesirable customs.

The consuetudinary origin that is troubled by bridal chamber is very ancient, " Chinese book " the evening of espouse of ground of account “ swallow, the men and women is not had not, think only flourish. ” (" Chinese book " , " geographical annals " ) the common that makes a room is likely traceable “ listens room ” . The night in newly-married, close friends is mixed in the utterance of new son's wife of the eavesdrop outside bridal chamber window movement, the no more than that people is interested is the thing of male joyous female love. Tell from the angle of sexual psychology, this kind of act is Fuluoyide it seems that of the ” of “ meaning excessive in theory lift. Evolve to be those who make fun of a bride to be troubled by bridal chamber gradually later. This kind of custom goes to Tang Dynasty, faddish folk, not only man relative, congratulate guest friend has the right that mocks a bride, connect irrelevant stranger, OK also midway block the way, make frivolous remarks about sb, touch mockingly, require search at difficult. This kind consuetudinary by ancient up to now, already turned into by individual behavior collective action.
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