However, as Confucianism those who learn is arisen, especially after Song Dai's a Confucian school of idealist philosophy of the Song and Ming Dynasties is flush, the woman is thought to want to bear a responsibility to social morality, home of a Confucian school of idealist philosophy of the Song and Ming Dynasties people in the world that forces a woman to live in confinement, widow remarry is the injustice of morally, cherish extremely of the woman chaste.

After this, the Chinese is obsessed with to the woman adores what also became a kind of mentally chastely. This kind is obsessed with a abominable example is ” of chastity of check of bridal chamber of so called “ . This kind consuetudinary new a form of address for one's wife chaste, became one kind is identified on the spot and everybody is in aside of attest naked maiden examine, lamentable is, bridegroom does not think this is to oneself affective be disrespectful is read, the bride also does not feel is the affront of pair of oneself character. Consuetudinary already screwy the heart of people.

Of chastity of bridal chamber check consuetudinary in folk red ” of check of “ be callinged, “ awards towel ” , ancient already had. It is commonly in conjugal day, by the bride the mother sends a daughter or the white towel handkerchief of husband, when thinking to the thing makes love first with, folk also says “ is fond of handkerchief ” .

Old times, all previous face decides wedding, have give the gift of towel. Some places are like Guangdong, award after towel, bridegroom bride closes room, making love makes love, and the parental relatives and friends of bridegroom is static outside the door await, tasteful later, bridegroom hand is held in both hands bright red dish, dish inside the towel that putting place to award, gai Yigong handkerchief, what its show a bride to be maiden new red, everybody everyone is happy, express congratulation in succession, send in order to burn a pig at bridal a married woman's parents' home. Before this, person of a married woman's parents' home puts Zhui uneasiness all the time, bride of for fear that does not see place needlework.

As a result of Hymen whether burst is become examine the only standard of chastity daughter, once did not see its are red, bridegroom and domestic person want ascribe bride adulterous, want to produce very big jealousy and discord in mentally at least, form diaphragmatic. Light person make a bride speechless, be insulted is lifetime, the position is not had before husband's family and husband, the person that weigh returns a married woman's parents' home by go-between repatriate woman.

Take place needlework seriously, it is the common sense of Chinese society. The civil people that is good at observation gifted his again romantic emotional appeal.

Of Wang Shifu " compartment is written down on the west " in record and narrate after the tryst of Zhang Sheng and Cui Ying warbler, special allude sweet towel, he writes:
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